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kgurl  

Happy Sunday everyone! And happy daylight savings time, if your state observes it

Happy Sunday everyone! And happy daylight savings time, if your state observes it. I have an overflow of conflicting feelings today because spring is almost here, which i love. At the same time I'm still feeling so anxious because of everything i have in my storage about to go to auction. But Aidpage member Inspiration has given me a step in a direction i'm praying will be good one. I'm also feeling hopeful because I've had two job interviews and I think something will come through so i'll have some income coming in, god willing, by next month. Well, that's it, just wanted to share. Just a welling up of a lot of feelings today. May all that is good in the world shine down on all of us today.
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oubroadcastmajor1  

A little Inspiration

I just got off the phone with my older brother whom I once used to have a really distant and horrible relationship with. He inspired me by telling me about his experience he had last weekend. He went to Charlotte, NC to a business conventions for millionaires and hopeful millionaires.Donald Trump was a special guest, spoke and gave a lot of motivation to the hopefuls and successful business men and women. There were many other guest
speakers, people who became successful in this business throughout the past years and ones who are just really freaking experienced and want to continue being successful. My brother told me he lived a weekend of luxury, VIP, and high class. What motivated him the most was when a Palestinian successful man talked to him and told him this is a great business and advised him to stay positive that it will all work out.

My brother told me that I have the potential in being in this business and being successful and hopefully one day being a millionaire. To have that accomplishment and success from my hard earned work would truly be life accomplishing. He said in May there will be another convention in Los Angelas and wants me to go along with him and his teammates. Sounds excited and very motivating!

I'm thrilled. I prayed to God that something can come to my life and help me from the mess I am in (financial wise). I may be that one girl that doesn't have financial support from others, and I may be that one girl that has a hold on my school account to set up my schedule for next qtr, but honestly..God's blessing keeps me going.

Thought I should share this to you all...when life gets rough, have hope and faith...it gets better.
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gaviota  

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missionX  

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trixxy  

About trixxy

I am desperate to find some help.  My husband was removed from the home because of his abuse and he brought a gun in the house to show me he is serious, if I were to tell anyone that's what I would get.  All the bills are behind and foreclosure is possible if I don't get help.  I am disabled and waiting for SDI.  I need help.  He would not give me a dime.

 

I went to make a wish, this site is great and I do believe:

 

Check it out:

this is amazing  http://www.real-wishes.com

See how it works and it's totally free, it can't hurt.

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seecrets  

About seecrets

hi i dont know how to start this off but i will tell you that i am a single mother of 6 kids and 2 grandaughters. yes i do have problems making ends meet and it has not been the most easiest thing to be a single mother and work 4 jobs at a time to put food on the table.  I am not trying to have a pity party for myself because i have had enough of those in the past nor am i trying to make anyone feel sorry for me because i believe that no matter what there still is hope left in me.  i am sitting here writing this too you after being turned down from asking to take some of my money out of my retirement fund because me and my children dont have any food and i am hoping that i have enough gas to get to work for the next couple of days. i have had my share of sad days too many and sometimes it is enough to make you want to quit but you can't i believe in my heart somthing good is around the corner for us all we just have to give God our heart and have faith. right now i can not tell you how hopeless i felt when i was turned down for getting a portion of my own money because they said  not having food is not an emergency it is either food or pay some of my bills, i know that in everything there is a lesson to be learned im just trying to figure out what is the lesson in this of not being able to fully provide for myself and family. Im thinking that whoever said that must have never went to bed hungry and never went days without eating. I want to have a better life and i am not afraid to believe that i can,  what i dream about is owning my own successful business and owning a beautiful mansion and reaching out to people and inspiring them to show them that if a single woman can do with six kids and the odds are against her then so can anyone else. i have no business knowledge but i know what i want to do and i am trusting God to bring  honest people into my life. i live in a home where the ceiling has fallen through several places and lots of water damage.  sometimes it is so hard to look at the situation im in and believe that things are going to get better but i have to believe and i speak it everyday that things are going to change. So i guess to top it all off if anyone can give me any ideas of how to get my self more together or who can put me in touch with some positive people that can get me going in the right direction i would really appreciate it.  please call me at 269 579 3567

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mommylove915  

About mommylove915

Hy'e My Name Is Norma im 26 i have 5 boys and right now just trying to make it on a ss.i check that my son gets and i cant it hurts me that i can not work or go to school because i have no help from family no one to offer to babysitt my boys are10,7,5,3and 2 years old i have family but all they do is just wonderin what im gettin them for christmas when i can't even afford to buy my children anything.I just hope a mirtacle happens and i can give my children something there are times i feel i am going to give up but i dont for them they keep me alive adn well i guess im tellin evryone how i feel because i do not have anyone else to hear me out.I do have a husband he recently got laid of work and now all i can do is think of my boys if anyone can help please do .So my two older boys have adhd and one of them is bipolor it hurts me so much.So if you can helpt hats great and if you cant then i understand .thank you for hearing me out adn i wish evryone a Merry Christmas on these hard times thanks love Norma from el paso,tx please contact me at tonyelptx@yahoo.com

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Kandu  

About Kandu

Hi , I'm just looking to share and give  a shoulder to those who are suffering with various health issues, as I myself am suffering also with various health issues. I am a retiree who enjoys nature ,my grandchildren, hobbies and art-as I am an artist. But I am suffering with my health, which darkens alot of  life's enjoyments  I'd like to partake in. So I'm just here to vent, as we all need to do at times,and I'm also here to  lend an ear to those who may need to vent as well.
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adi  

adi

I am a single mom for 9 years.I am a very active individual who is fond of meeting interesting people. I am a friendly person with a vivacious character, understanding and thoughtful.I believe that nothing is impossible if a person is persevering and responsible.
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lmham76  

lmham76

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sole  

How can I get tution fee sponsors fundraising for Ethiopian students?

How can I get tution fee sponsors fundraising for Ethiopian students?

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sole  

sole

What will be will be

The future is not ours to see.

Be generous for humankind

As you give your hand

At last.

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clh901b  

clh901b

I am grateful to whoever responds to this ad.  I really don't want to ask but I just don't know what to do.  I have bad credit,  and I can't even get a payday advance because I owe so many others.  I'm in trouble.  Please help.  I am behind on my rent $850. and I need a car to drive.  I am willing to pay a loan back at $50. per week.   Thank you very much,     Carolyn

 

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giordano family  

IDENTITY THEFT VICTUM

FROM:
Scott & Jennifer Giordano
Helendale, CA. 92342
Giordano-luv@verizon.net


SUBJECT:   HELP PLEASE!          


To Whom It May Concern:

If I may take a few minutes of your time I would like to share with you where my family currently stands with our finances, including our mortgage, and how we got to this point. On May of 2006 I left my previous 12 year job with County Fire Department for the following three reasons: (1) my position with County was being eliminated as of July 1st 2006. (2) Because I was losing my job with County I tried to be positive, aggressive, and proactive in finding a new job before I was let go. I Began testing in Colorado in October of 2005 and was doing very well. I continued testing for the next nine months truly believing I would be successful in getting a job in Colorado in particular with the Denver City Fire Department.  I was very successful with my testing efforts and the job was pending on passing a final background. The Start/hire date was estimated to be around mid July giving us enough time to pack move and get established in our rental home before I started my new job. (3) My wife was pregnant with our second child and was put on mandatory bed rest by her doctor until further notice due to complications. This happened in the first of May and I resigned 5 days later with County Fire to be with my wife and my two year old daughter.

It’s about mid May of 2006; I am home packing the house to move, taking care of my wife and my daughter. I continued making trips to Colorado for final testing and to look for our new home and a rental. We as a family make a trip around the end of May and put money down on a new Pulte house in Broomfield Colorado and we find a rental to live in until our house is built. My parents came along with us because they are also selling their house and moving with us. Our current home in Helendale has not sold yet and the market has dropped significantly from what it was one year ago. We decided that if it doesn’t sale before we move that we could afford to rent it out and we would be able to make up the difference with the money I would be making on my new job.

By June we are ready to move and are looking forward to this exciting new start with our lives in Colorado. Around mid June I receive a letter from Denver City stating that I did not pass the final Background and was disqualified for employment. I called to find out what happened and they said that they could not divulge any information but said that I could hire my own private investigator to find out what caused the problem. I hire an investigator and find out that we have been victims of identity theft for many years and that would automatically disqualify me from any government/public service job. I was confused and angry without any idea what had happened or how to fix this problem.

It is now July of 2006 I am now without a job unable to move and trying to figure out what to do for a job to support my family and how do I accomplish fixing this identity theft problem. I spend the next 8 months trying to fixing the identity theft problem spending over 5, 000.00 dollars of our money (not to mention the 75,000 per year lost from losing employment) making hundreds of phone calls to agencies such as San Bernardino County Sheriff, FBI, FTC, IRS, Social Security, AIG, Creditors, Banks, and many others. I have filed two dozen reports to meet the needs of every agency requesting documentation, I have also spend 8 to 10 hours a day looking for work or working small jobs like washing cars, yard work, small construction jobs etc. I have turned in over thirty (30) applications but I am unable to find work because my fifteen years of experience, diploma, and formal training are all based on the Fire Service. The catch 22 problem is I can’t test for fire departments until the identity theft problem is solved or I would run into the same problem I had with Denver City. I continue to hear the same thing from every employer, why are you here and are you going to go back to the fire service? Once I explained the problem they seemed compassionate about my problem but were unable or unwilling to hire me. Over the months we get further and further behind financially. Finally by mid January of 2007 I find a new job. The job is with Barstow Community College and is only part time at this point but I am extremely happy to be working again. Even though I am working I continue looking for full time work in the fire service.

The past several years I have been in a head on car accident with a drunk driver, lost a child, lost my grandmother on Christmas day, lost a best friend to cancer, lost both cars that we owned, my identity, a career, my dreams, ambitions, hope, peace of mind and joy. I have also sacrificed many personnel items like golf clubs, Thomas Kinkaid art collection, football card collection, collector coins passed down by family, and many other valuable items that we had to garage sale or sold on EBay to make money just so we could survive. Our credit has been severely damaged and our faith challenged. In addition to all of that I have suffered from several illnesses requiring medications and a lot of doctor visits. We experienced corrupt real-estate when we tried to refinance our home to get money to help us and instead we lost 30,000 dollars and gained nothing, that problem is currently under investigation with the DRE. We also gave up our dream to move to Colorado, a new house, a great new job doing what I love, and having the ability to help my parents who are retired and on a fixed income and were also counting on moving. My wife and I are hanging on by a thread and are tired, stressed, frustrated, deeply depressed, angry, and confused. We really don’t want to lose the one thing we have left, our home.

I totally and completely understand that this is not your problem and that you are not responsible for helping us in any way, however, I hope that you can find it in your hearts to help my family anyway possible. This is our problem and I take my commitment that I made to you very serious and we continue to do all wee can to make things right again. We really don’t want to lose our house. I refuse to walk away without trying to do everything in my power first. I don’t want a short sale or foreclosure, this does nothing for you or me to solve the problem and in the end we all lose. I am confident that there is an answer to this problem and that it can be solved. Again, I understand you don’t owe us anything and you have every right to take our home, I just ask that if there is any way possible that you or anyone else may be aware of to help us help our selves get back on track, please let me know. Please help us if you can.

As stated in this letter I am now working and my wife starts working the first of April. We are confident that we can get back on our feet and are slowly getting there. Please understand that we have lost over 100,000 dollars this past year to year and half, but we are not going to give up we are resilient, confident, humble and hard working and we are committed to make this unfortunate situation right again. We will try to do ALL we can to make this work and pray you can help us. I thank you so much for your time and consideration in regards to this matter.

Note:
 The following documentation can be provided to you for verification if you request it:

1. Police report
2. FTC report #
3. Investigation report
4. Denver City denial letter
5. Lawyer letter from working on credit issues
6. Letter from parents also explaining events
7. Letter from my wife giving her perspective of events
8. Records of financial support from our church
9. Witness of events letters from friends and family
10. Affidavit From Identity Theft 911 (from homeowner insurance)


Thanks again for your consideration, time, and help

Sincerely,

Scott Giordano
       And
     Family

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giordano family  

giordano family

 

 

FROM:
Scott & Jennifer Giordano
Helendale, CA. 92342
Giordano-luv@verizon.net


SUBJECT:   HELP PLEASE !


To Whom It May Concern:

If I may take a few minutes of your time I would like to share with you where my family currently stands with our finances, including our mortgage, and how we got to this point. On May of 2006 I left my previous 12 year job with County Fire Department for the following three reasons: (1) my position with County was being eliminated as of July 1st 2006. (2) Because I was losing my job with County I tried to be positive, aggressive, and proactive in finding a new job before I was let go. I Began testing in Colorado in October of 2005 and was doing very well. I continued testing for the next nine months truly believing I would be successful in getting a job in Colorado in particular with the Denver City Fire Department.  I was very successful with my testing efforts and the job was pending on passing a final background. The Start/hire date was estimated to be around mid July giving us enough time to pack move and get established in our rental home before I started my new job. (3) My wife was pregnant with our second child and was put on mandatory bed rest by her doctor until further notice due to complications. This happened in the first of May and I resigned 5 days later with County Fire to be with my wife and my two year old daughter.

It’s about mid May of 2006; I am home packing the house to move, taking care of my wife and my daughter. I continued making trips to Colorado for final testing and to look for our new home and a rental. We as a family make a trip around the end of May and put money down on a new Pulte house in Broomfield Colorado and we find a rental to live in until our house is built. My parents came along with us because they are also selling their house and moving with us. Our current home in Helendale has not sold yet and the market has dropped significantly from what it was one year ago. We decided that if it doesn’t sale before we move that we could afford to rent it out and we would be able to make up the difference with the money I would be making on my new job.

By June we are ready to move and are looking forward to this exciting new start with our lives in Colorado. Around mid June I receive a letter from Denver City stating that I did not pass the final Background and was disqualified for employment. I called to find out what happened and they said that they could not divulge any information but said that I could hire my own private investigator to find out what caused the problem. I hire an investigator and find out that we have been victims of identity theft for many years and that would automatically disqualify me from any government/public service job. I was confused and angry without any idea what had happened or how to fix this problem.

It is now July of 2006 I am now without a job unable to move and trying to figure out what to do for a job to support my family and how do I accomplish fixing this identity theft problem. I spend the next 8 months trying to fixing the identity theft problem spending over 5, 000.00 dollars of our money (not to mention the 75,000 per year lost from losing employment) making hundreds of phone calls to agencies such as San Bernardino County Sheriff, FBI, FTC, IRS, Social Security, AIG, Creditors, Banks, and many others. I have filed two dozen reports to meet the needs of every agency requesting documentation, I have also spend 8 to 10 hours a day looking for work or working small jobs like washing cars, yard work, small construction jobs etc. I have turned in over thirty (30) applications but I am unable to find work because my fifteen years of experience, diploma, and formal training are all based on the Fire Service. The catch 22 problem is I can’t test for fire departments until the identity theft problem is solved or I would run into the same problem I had with Denver City. I continue to hear the same thing from every employer, why are you here and are you going to go back to the fire service? Once I explained the problem they seemed compassionate about my problem but were unable or unwilling to hire me. Over the months we get further and further behind financially. Finally by mid January of 2007 I find a new job. The job is with Barstow Community College and is only part time at this point but I am extremely happy to be working again. Even though I am working I continue looking for full time work in the fire service.

The past several years I have been in a head on car accident with a drunk driver, lost a child, lost my grandmother on Christmas day, lost a best friend to cancer, lost both cars that we owned, my identity, a career, my dreams, ambitions, hope, peace of mind and joy. I have also sacrificed many personnel items like golf clubs, Thomas Kinkaid art collection, football card collection, collector coins passed down by family, and many other valuable items that we had to garage sale or sold on EBay to make money just so we could survive. Our credit has been severely damaged and our faith challenged. In addition to all of that I have suffered from several illnesses requiring medications and a lot of doctor visits. We experienced corrupt real-estate when we tried to refinance our home to get money to help us and instead we lost 30,000 dollars and gained nothing, that problem is currently under investigation with the DRE. We also gave up our dream to move to Colorado, a new house, a great new job doing what I love, and having the ability to help my parents who are retired and on a fixed income and were also counting on moving. My wife and I are hanging on by a thread and are tired, stressed, frustrated, deeply depressed, angry, and confused. We really don’t want to lose the one thing we have left, our home.

I totally and completely understand that this is not your problem and that you are not responsible for helping us in any way, however, I hope that you can find it in your hearts to help my family anyway possible. This is our problem and I take my commitment that I made to you very serious and we continue to do all wee can to make things right again. We really don’t want to lose our house. I refuse to walk away without trying to do everything in my power first. I don’t want a short sale or foreclosure, this does nothing for you or me to solve the problem and in the end we all lose. I am confident that there is an answer to this problem and that it can be solved. Again, I understand you don’t owe us anything and you have every right to take our home, I just ask that if there is any way possible that you or anyone else may be aware of to help us help our selves get back on track, please let me know. Please help us if you can.

As stated in this letter I am now working part time and my wife starts working the first of April. We are confident that we can get back on our feet and are slowly getting there. Please understand that we have lost over 100,000 dollars this past year to year and half, but we are not going to give up we are resilient, confident, humble and hard working and we are committed to make this unfortunate situation right again. We will try to do ALL we can to make this work and pray you can help us. I thank you so much for your time and consideration in regards to this matter.

Note:
 The following documentation can be provided to you for verification if you request it:

1. Police report
2. FTC report #
3. Investigation report
4. Denver City denial letter
5. Lawyer letter from working on credit issues
6. Letter from parents also explaining events
7. Letter from my wife giving her perspective of events
8. Records of financial support from our church
9. Witness of events letters from friends and family
10. Affidavit From Identity Theft 911 (from homeowner insurance)


Thanks again for your consideration, time, and help

Sincerely,

Scott Giordano
       And
     Family

I am a husband and a father and I am asking anyone that can help in ANYWAY posible to please send me an email so that I can get my family back on our feet and we can move on with our life again. This has been devastating to my intire family and we don't no where else wee can turn. Thank you for your time.

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praying family  

praying family

 hi my name is shannon alberti and i just made that name "praying family " up because we are a family that is truley praying for some one to approve us for a grant so we can better our family in a roof over our childrens heads . thankyou
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Mother 2  

Mother 2

Determined/Loving mother and daughter to take care of my family if it means asking for/receiving assistance.
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sissy08774  

sissy08774

i only want to be able to take care of my children..........
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blissfulmoon  

blissfulmoon

I am a 35 yr old female that is very bright and caring, that is also afflicked with 2 very severe mental health conditions. Bi-polar disorder and worse yet borderline personality disorder. At this stage in life it is suppose to be getting easier, you know, the kids are grown and life has some security.....well not for me , My symptoms presented themselves about 6 yrs ago and since then, disspite therapy has progressively gotten worse, but I keep trying day after day to hold on. My days and weeks are filled with group, individual and medication therapy. Any and all free time I have, I try to research my disorders to find clues on how to get better, It's a never ending task. I NEED HELP!!!!!!! If anyone who reads this can help, please do, GOD will definately bless you for it.
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